Missed Expectations: Incivility in the
Classroom
It should not be surprising that students
and teachers regularly fail to meet one anothers expectations and,
consequently, act in ways that may be considered incivil.
Classroom incivility is a slippery concept. We can all
certainly agree that shouting an insult or picking a fistfight in the classroom
is uncivil.
But how about drawing a picture in a notebook or eating a
sandwich during class. What about walking in late? Or leaving early?
Interrupting to ask a question? Or interrupting to make a derisive comment?
Agreeing on examples isn't easy, is it? Some standards for
behavior are widely understood. For example, we agree that a fistfight is
uncivil, whether in a classroom, a grocery store, or a parking lot. Other
standards apply only in particular environments. Most adults understand that
loud conversation is inappropriate in a piano recital, but unremarkable at a
rock concert.
Standards vary from person to person. I may be offended by a
student who wears a baseball cap or sleeps in class, but I may not care if the
student fails to call me Sir or passes a note to his neighbor.
Its in this last realm that teachers and students have
the most trouble defining incivility. We each have different personal
expectations, so we have different definitions.
Teachers expectations can shift from one type of
learning situation to another and from one group of students to the next.
Teachers hold some expectations simply because they understand the teaching
role differently than students do.
Its important to recognize that the same is true of
students. Students in a single class may have different standards of behavior,
and any single student's expectations may vary from one class to the next.
Every teacher has, at some point, been a student. But,
despite this reality, students as a rule understand their own role differently
than teachers do. It shouldnt be surprising, then, that students and
teachers regularly fail to meet each others expectations and
thusaccidentally or purposefullydo things that may be considered
uncivil.
There are, I believe, five possible ways for classroom
incivility to develop:
- A teacher fails to communicate expectations to students.
- Students ignore or disagree with expectations set by a
teacher.
- Students fail to communicate expectations to a
teacher.
- A teacher ignores or disagrees with expectations set by
students.
- Students disagree with or are unaware of each other's
expectations.
The Expertise
Problem College teachers are experts. Some specialize in
chemistry, some in music theory, others in accounting.
Colleges hire new faculty on the strength of their
credentials in a subject area and, on many campuses, on the promise that they
will stretch the limits of scholarship in their disciplines.
These professional expectations may lead some teachers to
misconstrue their role in the classroom. New college teachers, in particular,
commonly make the mistake of assuming that their job is simply to tell students
what they knowto transmit knowledge.
This is a seductive point of view because it reinforces a
teachers self-image as an expert and leads a teacher to favor those
students who, in turn, behave like experts.
As Alexander Astin notes, this perspective leads teachers to
reward being smart rather than becoming smartand reflects an expectation
that learning is an outcome rather than a process.
To be fair, this is what many students expect, too. Many
students expect they will gain knowledge simply by listening to what an expert
has to say, just as they expect to receive a product in the store simply by
paying the price.
This misconception about learning and the role of expertise
has been the subject of much debate among educatorsand remains a source
of controversy among many faculty.
But a growing recognition of the shortcomings of one-way
knowledge transmission is spurring a movement away from traditional lectures
and toward more interactive styles of instruction.
Still, lingering mismatched expectations are common enough
to be at the root of many disappointments as teachers adopt active methods. For
example, teachers and students who focus on learning as a product may tacitly
expect the learning process to be easy. But active learning requires personal
effortand it's hard.
When students discover that they cannot learn effectively
without some active participation in discussion, problem solving, or
questioning, they can feel betrayed. They may reason that the teacher
isnt working hard enough, so students are having to do more than they
expect in order to learn.
Other students may assume theyre to blame for failing
to learn material that might have seemed easier to understand in a traditional
lecture. Teachers, for their part, may conclude that when students fail to
learn in an active classroom its because the students arent trying
hard enough or are stupid.
The Maturity
Problem Traditional aged, 18- to 22-year-old college students
are adults in many ways. Most have had their final growth spurt to an adult
size. In many ways, these students are at a lifetime peak in physical
condition.
Legally, society considers these students old enough to
vote, marry, own property, and serve in the military. Most of them have job
skills that offer a measure of financial and social independence.
At the same time, college students are typically new to life
away from family and home community. They lack the confidence that comes from
mastering diverse learning challenges and the resilience that develops from
surviving disappointments. In significant ways, they are, really,
apprentice adults.
Teachers and students can each err by underestimating the
importance of this apprentice role. It may not be reasonable, for instance, for
teachers to expect students to appreciate adult views about time management,
polite classroom discourse, and acceptable responses to
disappointment.
These concepts become increasingly important throughout the
teen years, but they become adult expectations only as students arrive at the
brink of independence. So part of a college teacher's responsibility should be
to model the adult role and to make adult behavioral expectations explicit.
For their part, students may set unreasonable expectations
by failing to see themselves as apprentices. As some parents are fond of
saying, If you expect to be treated as an adult, you have to behave like
one. But this is easier said than done.
From Disappointment to Incivility
and Beyond Without much trouble, you should be able to think of
other situations in which students and teachers commonly have mismatched
expectations. Do these differences always lead to incivility? Of course not. It
is probably more common that mismatched expectations create disappointment and
contribute to lowered enthusiasm for learning or for teaching.
But, in one way, were lucky when mismatched
expectations do generate incivility. When we can see overt signs of a failing
relationship, we can look behind them for the expectations that we need to meet
or adjust in order to rebuild it. Beyond lies recovery and more effective
learningand a greater degree of civility.
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